“All big things come from small beginnings. The seed of every habit is a single, tiny decision. But as that decision is repeated, a habit sprouts and grows stronger. Roots entrench themselves and branches grow. The task of breaking a bad habit is like uprooting a powerful oak within us. And the task of building a good habit is like cultivating a delicate flower one day at a time.”― James Clear, Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
As we start the annual ritual of New Year’s resolutions, determine if your resolution is important enough that you will create daily rituals, routines and habits to follow through on commitments. If not, choose one or two that are “doable” over the long haul and don’t fall for the usual “get rich quick” schemes. Lay out a daily time-bound plan with specific steps that are measurable.
For the world, 2020 was filled with unprecedented challenges, progress amidst ongoing uncertainty and small victories through adversity. A year ago, we were planning for a year better than the one before. Our plans came to a grinding halt in February with the spread of COVID-19. While uncertainty and fear made it difficult, we were offered ample time to reflect, change and learn. We still have time so let’s get started.
As this year slowly unfolded, we discovered what’s really important including the need for human connection, gratitude, empathy and resilience. If 2020 showed us anything, it is our innate capacity to shift, adjust and adapt. It’s not the year we planned, but it’s the one we got so how will you apply lessons learned in 2021?
In March, I started and stuck with daily journaling and meditation which made each day more intentional and anchored. Both activities are a form of self-reflection that foster and enhance our ability to learn. Small steps executed consistently pave the path to goals fulfilled. Atomic Habits author James Clear, states that “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
In my writing practice this year, I’ve learned the value of iterations, first drafts that lead to final versions followed by execution. Starting requires us to be imperfect, incomplete and unfinished. Through the process of action, the work moves us into new directions and the destination appears as we make our way down the path. When we do the work, the outcome takes care of itself.
Experiments, iterations and failures all lead to sustainable and creative solutions. We need to execute, learn, re-execute, apply, learn again. Rarely do we arrive to meaningful destinations without roadblocks, detours and getting lost along the way. The line from point A to point B is usually circular, winding and spiraling.
“Our ability to make the most out of uncertainty is what creates the most potential value. We should be fueled not by a desire for a quick catharsis but by intrigue. Where certainty ends, progress begins.”― Ozan Varol, Think Like a Rocket Scientist.
Uncertainty is where discovery and creativity unfold. Former rocket scientist, Varol offers strategies to think like a scientist:
Changing your attitude toward uncertainty opens you up to discovery. Scientists don’t fear uncertainty, they thrive on it to create new possibilities. The COVID-19 vaccine development in record time (months rather than years!) this year shows the power of exploration, iterations and experimentation. We can apply this concept in our daily lives as well.
The best way to innovate is to stop conforming. Habits and rituals have their place in creating discipline and progress. We can operationalize activities that serve us well in addition to innovating with a “playground” curiosity mindset. No rules.
Productivity is the enemy of original thought.
Your mind is your biggest obstacle between you and your goal. We need to balance between convergent and divergent thinking. Lots of ideas, start to converge them into a new configuration and take action. When fresh thinking and ideas are needed, go wide with divergence, wander freely and gather without judgment.
To get the best solution, ask the right question.
Overcome your blind spots. Confirmation bias has us looking for information that affirms and supports our view. When we ask, “what am I missing?” and actively seek the answer, we find our blind spots. Work to disprove your hypothesis to get to the truth.
The best way to be successful is to test rigorously.
Study failures to learn from them.
Historian Daniel J. Boorstin writes, “The great obstacle to discovering was not ignorance but the illusion of knowledge.”
As the year winds down, take time to reflect deeply on what you learned, unlearn what’s holding you back and get ready to apply lessons to create the future that you aspire to and are willing to work for. Class is always in session, learning is optional.
