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“If you surrendered to the air,

you could ride it.”

– Toni Morrison

The Critic and the Creative

November 29, 2020

“You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.” – Maya Angelou

The critic and the creative co-exist within each of us. We give too much credence to the critic, drowning out the voice and the call of the creative. Bound up and tangled in old narratives of “not good enough” and “unworthiness,” the critic stops us before we dare to start. Ignore the critic – both the internal and external ones. Create, execute, deliver.

We make the creative process unattainable by making it illusive and magical, requiring inspiration before starting. Daily work, repetition and practice are the required ingredients. Inspiration is a byproduct of the work rather than the fuel. Start and the inspiration will follow where first drafts make their way to final work ready to be released and set free.

“If we condition ourselves to work without flow, it’s more likely to arrive. It all comes back to trusting our self to create the change we seek. We don’t agree to do that after flow arrives. We do the work, whether we feel like it or not, and then, without warning, flow can arise. Flow is a symptom of the work we’re doing, not the cause of it,” states Seth Godin in his new book, The Practice: Shipping Creative Work. He continues, “The time we spend worrying is actually time we’re spending trying to control something that is out of our control. Time invested in something that is within our control is called work. That’s where our most productive focus lies. The practice requires a commitment to a series of steps, not a miracle. We don’t ship the work because we’re creative. We’re creative because we ship the work.”

Each day, we need to do the work by putting in time with a commitment to habits and rituals. “It’s vital to establish some rituals – automatic but decisive patterns of behavior – at the beginning of the creative process, when you are most at peril of turning back, chickening out, giving up, or going the wrong way.” – Twyla Tharp, The Creative Habit: Learn It and Use It for Life.

“Creators create. Action is identity. You become what you do. You don’t need permission from anybody to call yourself a writer, entrepreneur, or musician. You just need to write, build a business, or make music. You’ve got to do the verb to be the noun,” states Chase Jarvis, author of Creative Calling. He continues, “Fear is a gift, a precious instinct. Your primitive “reptile brain” is there to protect you and keep you alive. You can’t reason with it; it learns through action. But if you take action despite the fear and survive, it learns a tiny lesson. Over time, action by action, the volume of the negative voice goes down.”

Outline a plan this week. Put an hour on the calendar to start, to create the framework, the habits and rituals to start creating. Allow the process and work to unfold and guide you to the next step. Dwell in possibility and start again and again.

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” – Arthur Ashe

In Insights Tags creativity, process, daily habits, Seth Godin

“Exploration is really the essence of the human spirit.” – Frank Borman

E2! - Exploring and Execution!

November 15, 2020

“We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.” - T. S. Eliot

Inquiry, curiosity and wonder are the heart of exploration, discovery and self-actualization. On my hunt for insights, ideas and inspiration, there are three new resources worth exploring right now.

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In Insights Tags Seth Godin, self-actualization, creativity, calling, human spirit

“No man is free who is not master of himself.”

- Epictetus

Stay in Your Own Lane

September 21, 2020

“Listen closely to that inner voice. The answer is almost always right there in your gut, and science backs that up. Western culture has a long history of discounting the importance of intuition in favor of so-called rational thought. Only over the last few decades have researchers begun to discover that reason is far from perfect: everyday human cognition is limited, slow, and distorted by unhelpful biases. Meanwhile, intuition has increasingly revealed itself to be a mind-bogglingly quick, sensitive, and perceptive tool, rapidly picking up on subtleties and patterns in the world that the conscious mind isn’t powerful enough to spot.”— Chase Jarvis, Creative Calling: Establish a Daily Practice, Infuse Your World with Meaning, and Succeed in Work + Life

I have always had a passion for entrepreneurship and a strong sense of ownership. Work hard, take responsibility, care about what you do, make a difference with enthusiasm. Good attributes until they go too far into owning things that are not mine to own.

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In Insights Tags creativity, focus, attention, energy

You are HERE

August 2, 2020

“You are here” maps show you where you are in relation to where you’ve been and where you are going. As we plan, plot and race to the next spot, we need to remind ourselves of the progress that got us “here” and the joy to be found on the journey to the next “here.”

The past six months of a worldwide pandemic, social unrest and political positioning have certainly turned the map upside down. There are days that feel like we’ll be “here” forever. While the immediate future is unknown and uncertainty is ruling the day, we can create certainty by tapping into our resilience, creativity and adaptability.

In The Power of Questions, Glenda Eoyang suggests three practices to engage with intractable issues:

  1. See patterns not problems – when we can see patterns, we can shift them and create new patterns that serve us better;

  2. Learn in action - the iterative process of Adaptive Action (WHAT? SO WHAT? NOW WHAT?) allows observations, understandings, and actions to evolve; 

  3. Stand in Inquiry - No single answer is sufficient for complex issues. Questions can open our mind into new possibilities and ways to shift patterns.

Human Systems Dynamics Institute has developed models and methods to support the practices of Pattern Logic, Adaptive Action, and Inquiry.

“Look at the world around you. It may seem like an immovable, implacable place. It is not. With the slightest push — in just the right place — it can be tipped.” — Malcolm Gladwell

Asking questions and being open to new answers push us from the complacency of contracting into the possibilities of expansion. Expanding prompts creativity and innovation to create a new future filled with optimism and opportunity. Exercising our imagination can help us plan and prepare for a post -COVID life. In a TEDxMile High article on How to Expand Your Imagination in 8 Days, Kendra Sand offers ways to work your imagination muscles:

  1. See adventure – new experiences requires your mind to think and neurons to connect in new ways;

  2. Challenge perception - “When the brain processes vision, the vast majority of information is not coming from the eyes, but from memory. In fact, it is now estimated that visual perception is 80% memory and 20% input through the eyes. In other words, sensory information is not transmitted to the brain; it comes from it.” – Jennifer Bornstein;

  3. Daydream – unconnect and stop consuming technology and media. Create quiet space for yourself each day to reconnect with wonder;

  4. Speak up – imagination is linked to language and voice. Talk with a friend, allow your ideas to take shape by talking about them;

  5. Play – relax, meditate and reconnect with the kid in yourself;

  6. Find blue – a study from the University of British Columbia found that the color blue enhances openness, calm and peacefulness;

  7. Star gaze - “Experiencing the night sky provides perspective, inspiration, and leads us to reflect on our humanity and place in the universe. The history of scientific discovery and even human curiosity itself is indebted to the natural night sky.” – Dark Sky Project

  8. Take a walk – creative output increases with walking and wandering.

We are living through a very intense season of change and transformation right now. While we can’t control our external circumstances, we can change what we internalize and how we can change ourselves through actions now that will serve us well in the future. “You are Here” right now and imagine, create and move to your next “here.”

In Insights Tags imagination, inquiry, adaptive action, creativity

“Silence is true wisdom's best reply.”

– Euripides

The Art of Nothingness

July 9, 2020

In initial moments of quiet, the mind wanders to “should” expectations often rooted in others’ expectations or our perceptions of their expectations. I took this week off with no plans other than to not have every minute scheduled. It’s been a long time since I’ve taken a week off - over a year to be precise. After a few errands today, I actually read for two hours in a row. The silence is daunting, palpable and absolutely necessary to discern and gain clarity.

In Stillness is the Key, Ryan Holiday states “we must cultivate mental stillness to succeed in life and to successfully navigate the many crises it throws our way. It will not be easy. But it is essential.”

Cultivate and commit to stillness each day, not just on vacation. Weave it into your “to do” list so what you are doing is meaningful and fulfilling. Creativity, joy and fun start in nothingness that move swiftly into the art of being.

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In Inspiration Tags silence, creativity, stillness

“Creativity comes from a conflict of ideas.”

– Donatella Versace

Mechanics AND Magic

June 7, 2020

“Creativity is an energy. It's a precious energy, and it's something to be protected. A lot of people take for granted that they're a creative person, but I know from experience, feeling it in myself, it is a magic; it is an energy. And it can't be taken for granted.” – Ava DuVernay

I get stuck. We all get stuck. Ruts, potholes and detours are a normal part of the journey. One way to get unstuck is to break the current pattern and get out of your head. If you are too close, step back. If you are too far out, zoom in. When tangled up in thoughts, move to action to see where it leads.

I land on the side of a lot of doing – the mechanics of things. I know that I need more magic, to wander and wonder each day amidst the need for order. It’s not a choice between right brain or left brain, work or play, action or reflection. We need more “ands” rather than “ors” to maneuver between opposites and weave both into our being. Clarity comes from both reflection and action.

When we enter the creative zone – the magic, there’s a natural ease, flow and space. We open up to mystery in the ordinary, see the same differently and enter the unknown with curiosity. Staying in the present invites and welcomes ideas, connections and insights as our preconceived notions and rules fade to the background.

When we put our guard down on order, allowing creativity to ensue, time stands still and rushing ceases. While I would have rather had something other than a pandemic to hit the brakes on busy, it certainly has put us all in a space where we have to think differently, challenge our assumptions and be open to what comes next since it’s difficult if not impossible to predict and clearly delineate the near future.

There is a comfort and certainty in mechanics. Structure helps make sense of the abstract and it can also bind us if we aren’t checking the validity of the systems we abide by. Frameworks of processes and procedures create efficiencies and consistency. It also leads to “check the box” living.

As we begin to reopen and re-enter the #otherside, we have an opportunity to create a hybrid for ourselves where we don’t go back and we dare to create something unfamiliar and new. We can integrate both magic and mechanics into our days to go deeper and find meaning beyond busy. To dream and then to execute on those dreams. To work and play. To produce and to do nothing. Moving between divergence and convergence. Right brain to left brain, and back again.

Design Thinking can help us redefine how we look at things, how we make old things new and fresh. There are five stages to the design thinking process.  

  1. Empathise

  2. Define

  3. Ideate

  4. Prototype

  5. Test

We certainly have had a master class this past three months on empathy. While we are all in this pandemic together, those generous professionals on the front lines of health care and service businesses have been risking a lot serving the rest of us who have had the opportunity to work from home (albeit on nonstop zoom meetings).

While I’m not thrilled to wear a mask, I will to honor and respect others who have sacrificed more than me and have a different and valid perspective. That’s the heart of empathy. To understand there’s more than me and to allow others to express themselves as they wish. Empathy is one of the domains of emotional intelligence – where we move from self-awareness into outer-awareness and connectedness. When we allow diverse vantage points, we can expand our horizon to allow all voices to be heard.

Empathy and defining the problem create the baseline for new scenarios and possibilities.  There are several ideation methods that the Interaction Design Foundation outline:

  1. Brainstorming – You build good ideas from each other’s wild ideas;

  2. Braindumping – Brainstorming done individually;

  3. Brainwriting – Like brainstorming, but everyone writes down and passes ideas for others to add to before discussing these.

  4. Brainwalking – Like brainwriting, but members walk about the room, adding to others’ ideas.

  5. Challenging Assumptions – Overturn established beliefs about problems, revealing fresh perspectives.

  6. Mindmapping – Mind mapping is a creative and logical means of note-making.

  7. Storyboarding – You develop a visual problem/design/solution-related story to illustrate a situation’s dynamics;

  8. SCAMPER – Question problems through action verbs (“Substitute”, “Combine”, “Adapt”, “Modify”, “Put to another use”, “Eliminate”, “Reverse”) to produce solutions

  9. Analogies – You draw comparisons to communicate ideas better.

Prototyping and testing allows for the new ideas to be put into action to see what works and what doesn’t based on user testing. When the design is vetted and tested, adjustments can be made followed by models, processes and procedures to operationalize and execute new ideas consistently.

Design Thinking weaves both “magic” and “mechanics” together to come to new understanding and framework to move into uncertainty creatively and with rigor. Let go of the “or” and embrace “and” along with “what if” and “why not.” Mechanics AND magic.

“Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way.” – Edward de Bono

 

In Ideas Tags design thinking, empathy, emotional intelligence, creativity, operationalization

“Imagination creates reality.”

– Richard Wagner

Lines, Move Them, Now

April 25, 2020

“The visionary starts with a clean sheet of paper, and re-imagines the world.” – Malcolm Gladwell

Lines harness, shape, capture, catch, organize, focus and provide a lens to see the world. They create the blueprint from which we build our house both literally and figuratively. They define constructs and boundaries on how we engage and interact with others and our circumstances.

Woven together, lines become the net in which we collect ideas, thoughts and possibilities. They give us context, direction and perspective to break abstract white space into concrete understanding, a plan to work from with specific steps to get to the finish line.

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In Ideas Tags trail blazing, Dave Hollis, imagination, creativity, new normal

“My appointed work is to awaken the divine nature that is within.”

– Peace Pilgrim

A New Awesome, Not Normal

April 16, 2020

“He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how.” - Nietzsche

This rare unfamiliar time is revealing our need and longing for connection, meaning and purpose. Our virtual meetings (all day long) invite us into our colleagues’ homes with dogs laying on the futon, kids crossing in the background, waving in the camera and snuggling with Mom who looks a bit worn. Finally, something that makes meetings fun and enjoyable! Suddenly, we are letting our guard down, becoming real (especially our hair) and welcoming authenticity into our life without apology or pretense. We are immersed in a master class on empathy, kindness and gratitude.

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In Insights Tags meaning, purpose, creativity, Frankl, new normal

“To see things in the seed, that is genius.”

– Lao Tzu

Memento Mori, Seize the Day!

February 23, 2020

“Ask yourself at every moment, ‘Is this necessary?’” – Marcus Aurelius

Start3Things is not a magic formula to be more efficient, to find shortcuts to longcut work or to do more with less. Rather, it’s a prompt, an invitation, your permission slip to wake up, to challenge old stories, to stop busy work, to start new things with no concern for perfection, to improve with practice, to go deeper rather than wider and to focus on daily actions that move you closer to your purpose.

When we realize acutely that our days are numbered and the number is unknown, our perspective shifts, attention hones and efforts focus on what is truly necessary. Minor irritations, inconveniences and excuses are replaced with intention, consistency and rigor of practice.

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In Inspiration Tags Memento Mori, Stoicism, Big Leaps, Gay Hendricks, purpose, genius zone, creativity

“Today was good. Today was fun. Tomorrow is another one.”

- Dr. Seuss

Play Time - Bring It On!

November 10, 2019

“Now this relaxation of the mind from work consists on playful words or deeds. Therefore it becomes a wise and virtuous man to have recourse to such things at times.” – Thomas Aquinas

Where we focus our finite time, attention and capacity defines the quality and depth of our days. The actions of experimenting and exploring help us discover what is most important to us. Our core values should drive how and what we spend our time on to make our days meaningful and fulfilling.

“Doing more with less” is empty mantra that corporate America has been serving up for decades, which accounts for the 34% employee engagement rate as measured by Gallup. While the numbers have improved, 53% are in the “not engaged” category. The sheer volume of what’s expected will not be solved with more technology or multi-tasking schemes. How about “doing less with more” and creating lasting value?

Engagement in an activity, whether it be work, a side gig or a hobby that requires passion and commitment which compels us to put effort into the activity.

One important way to re-engage and rediscover your passion is play. In “Adults need recess too. Here’s why you need time to play”, Tolu Ajiboye describes how playing games, exercising, hobbies and laughter facilitate creativity and problem-solving skills as well improve our cognitive health and happiness.

“Clinical psychologist and chief of the Division of Psychology at Ellis Hospital, Dr. Rudy Nydegger, says there are two basic tenets of play. ‘First, it is something that we do for recreation that is purely for enjoyment and/or entertainment — it is something we do just for fun," he says. "Second, it is something that is intrinsically motivating. In other words it is something that we want to do and is not something we need to be coerced or 'bribed' into doing. It is voluntary; we do it just because we want to.’”

Integrating play into our days not only makes life more fun and each us more fun to be around, it can improve the outcomes of our efforts and relationships. Don’t wait for vacation to get more play time in. Commit to it every day.

Do less and play more. Recess has begun, let the games begin.

In Inspiration Tags play, creativity, cognition, core values, engagement

“Action is eloquence.”

- William Shakespeare

From Seeds to Fruition – How to Generate, Germinate and Execute Ideas

November 3, 2019

“All of us contain a divine, expressive spark, a creative candle intended to light our path and that of our fellows. We are shiny, not tarnished; large, not small; beautiful, not damaged – although we may be ignorant of our grace, power, and dignity.” – Julia Camerson, The Artist’s Way

The blank page, the empty canvas, can be daunting. Each time I begin a new article, I get a touch of imposter’s syndrome, feeling inadequate and doubting that I can execute. It fades to the background as soon as I start and enter the process of creative expression. Wandering, losing track of time and getting the first draft on paper are the main ingredients of idea generation and narrative development.

In addition to starting right where I’m at in the moment, I also use Julia Cameron’s practices of morning pages and artist’s dates to generate ideas and uncover what’s hiding inside waiting to be released.

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In Ideas Tags creativity, design thinking, growth

“Dream and give yourself permission

to envision a You that you can

choose to be.”

- Joy Page

Creativity Permission Slip

October 25, 2019

How many times have you said, “I’m not creative”? Too many, I’m sure. It’s time to stop, paint a new picture and change your mindset.

“A study by George Land reveals that we are naturally creative and as we grow up we learn to be uncreative. Creativity is a skill that can be developed and a process that can be managed. Creativity begins with a foundation of knowledge, learning a discipline, and mastering a way of thinking. You can learn to be creative by experimenting, exploring, questioning assumptions, using imagination and synthesing information. Learning to be creative is akin to learning a sport. It requires practice to develop the right muscles and a supportive environment in which to flourish,” according to Creativity at Work.

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In Inspiration Tags creativity, innovation, mindset, TED

Pick Up the Pen…

The Blank Page

September 10, 2019

“Creativity is always a leap of faith. You're faced with a blank page, blank easel, or an empty stage.” – Julia Cameron

I sat staring at a blank page tonight, uninspired and tired. So I proceeded to give up and put my computer back in my office and shifted my blank stare to mediocre repeat shows on television. I didn’t feel like researching or putting rigor into the content that I want to offer on Start3Things.

But I couldn’t go to bed without posting this. If we wait for inspiration to start, we will rarely if ever start. There’s nothing magical or romantic about it. It takes work, repetition and filling up the blank page with less than perfect words. To accomplish meaningful and lasting things, the things we are built for, we need to put in effort and push through so we don’t get stuck in our heads.

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In Ideas Tags creativity, effort, action
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“The scariest moment is always just before you start”

-Stephen King

First Draft

July 8, 2019

Writing the first blog post for my new website Start3Things (S3T) is daunting. I’ve had S3T swirling in my head for over three years. And as the disparate pieces are coming together into a pattern, a story, and  launching is near, I get stuck on the first blog article. Pretty appropriate I suppose.

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In Ideas Tags creativity, purpose, writing
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