Increasing work demands, family commitments and now the onset of the holiday season are all valid excuses why we don’t pay attention to our own development and passions. In our relentless efforts to keep others happy, pay the bills and do “more with less,” our days quickly become a series of transactions and checklists with little room for transformational living.

If we pursued our purpose with the rigor that we do our “to do” lists, we would be fulfilling our dreams and enjoying each day in the process of our own becoming. When we are personally fulfilled, we are increase our capacity to serve others and our ongoing commitments with sustained joy and vibrancy.

As the flight attendant says during the safety demonstration before taking off, “put on your own mask first before assisting others.” Good advice.